When I was a teenager, I was a little hurt when my mother commented that I was a daydreamer, as in “just a daydreamer.” Apparently I spent more time than my siblings sitting and staring off into space. If I were Catholic, I would carry a bit of guilt for daydreaming, but my mother gave me Buddhism, from which I learned that reflecting on things is not much different than daydreaming. In daydreaming, the controlling mind relaxes. There is no striving towards problem solving, but rather a contemplation of the options. However, as Erik Mueller says in Daydreaming in Humans and Machines, “…when one sees a cat, one is not overwhelmed with every idea and experience associated in some way with cats…” Even daydreaming can be selective. You don’t have to worry about your mind becoming so relaxed that random unrelated images bombard you. In random daydreaming, a person’s thought usually turn to fantasies about people, on whatever emotional issues with them are most urgent at the time. But it is also possible to daydream with an indirect focus. One can go into a daydreaming mode with a particular idea in mind. It is akin to solo brainstorming, and also shares some similarity with mindful meditation, which has been described as “paying attention in a particular way” by Jon Kabat Zinn, a longtime Buddhist teacher. It is also a technique used to help interpret one’s dreams. Night-time dreams have been known to offer profound truths, such as when Watson and…
Leigh Stein, author of The Fallback Plan (Melville, 2012), will unashamedly tell you that she’s lived with her parents four times. Her newly-released novel, a coming-of-age about post-college angst, is spliced with details from her own experience and speaks volumes to the plight of so many twenty-something’s undergoing a quarter-life crisis. Stein’s protagonist, Esther, is a recent Northwestern graduate suffering from the post-grad blues. While… [Read More]
Are you ready to pick a WordPress theme for your new website and blog? If you’ve been following our Saturday social media for authors blog series and completed the first six “baby steps”, you already have a domain name, webhost, and content management system ready to go. Hopefully you’ve found time over the holidays to do a bit of window shopping and figured out how… [Read More]
Writing a query letter that hooks an agent or acquisitions editor for your non-fiction book concept is the golden key that opens the door to publishing. So how do you hook ’em? Think of your query letter as a sales pitch for the book. Accept the fact that those who read your initial correspondence are trained, so to speak, to judge books by their covers and make their first impressions based on marketability…. [Read More]
Ready to begin blogging in 2012? Have you completed Steps 1-5? If so, it’s time to install WordPress.org, following the instructions provided by your webhosting service provider. If BlueHost.com is your provider, it is a simple, one-click installation. Word Press’ video tutorials offer a quick and efficient way to set up a basic design and utilize important features by familiarizing you, the new user, with dashboard commands… [Read More]
The New Year is upon us. Everyone is talking about 2012 resolutions and proposing ways to become a better person. Personally, I hate resolutions. It’s fine to desire to be a better person, to lose 15 lbs, to eat more wholesome meals and fewer fast food quick fixes, to tackle home improvement projects, to promise to volunteer at the local food pantry every weekend, and… [Read More]



